Welcome, thanks for visiting. I'm Vin - relationship coach, author, speaker and founder of Life of Legacy weekend. If you're struggling with a high conflict relationship then you have come to the right place.
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Coaching for Men
Are you a man in a high conflict relationship?
Coach you to be a strong communicator
Show you how to set proper boundaries
Coach you to bring out your best in every relationship
Help you to be a peacemaker at home
Coach you to bring your "A" game to work
Exemplify how you can live a life of love, joy and peace even in the crazy times
Does the fight never end?
Together We Will:
Discover the reason for communication break down
Re-Purpose Your Pain
Rebuild on a Firm Foundation
Re-ignite Your Passion
So What happened?
Did your relationship begin with amazing bliss and suddenly took a turn for the worst?
Does your partner or spouse struggle with alcohol, drugs, theft, overeating, sexual addiction, real or perceived fear of abandonment, or have body image issues?
Do your conversations cause you to feel like you're crazy?
Do you feel like you're never good enough?
Do you feel there is a continual effort to undermine your goals, and you lack success in areas of life where you seek joy and fulfillment?
Do you feel like you just want to get off the roller coaster ride?
This Crazy Cycle Isn't Entirely Your Fault!
Growing up we all adopt relationship patterns that influence and contribute to our present ways of relating and communicating. When we enter into a committed relationship we attract either the best or the worst of our childhood relationships. If we are not careful our emotional under current can blind us from the truth. Everyone lives out the relationship programming from childhood which is where we first learned how to relate to others and ourselves.
Gain New Clarity!
Imagine your life where you are able to . . .
Rediscover your true self
Define your relationship goals and achieve them
Unload unhealthy fears
Enjoy a proper perspective of self and others
Feel secure and eliminate feelings of distrust and angst
I walked in your shoes for twenty five years. I took on the struggles for as long as I could. I hung in there for the marriage, holding out hope that things would get better. I hung in there for my four daughters and grandchildren because they deserve the best. I hung in there for many other great reasons but the fact is that hanging in there is survival mode. I am not talking about giving up or walking away. I am talking about reclaiming what is truly yours - an abundant life overflowing in love, joy and peace.
If this sounds like your story and are serious about reclaiming an abundant life, then lets get started with the initial breakthrough session. Click on the link below to learn more. I look forward to helping you find Clarity Beyond Crazy.